The news these days is filled with terrible predictions, terrible warnings and a whole load of negative information. To be honest, I really find it hard to read newspapers or even watch the news on TV; it is something I find harder and harder to do! It is very easy to get involved in the politics, dire warnings, health scares, fear etc., because one is bombarded with it 24/7. One day in the news, they comment on salt being bad for you, or something else in the food line, then a few years later, they let salt off the hook; and the population on the earth plane follows every word and goes with the advice and guidance given. There is no room for individual choice, we are like robots, we do what we are told, or follow what we read, and if we break away from that, we are labeled a rebel or strange! Yet, each one of us is different from the next person, even multiple birth people and each one of us, even twins, quads and sextuplets, although born on the same day, often within seconds of each other, are different from their siblings personality wise. There is nobody else like you, you are unique and as such are different in the way your body acts, reacts, or responds. There are certain foods I need to keep myself grounded on the earth plane, others cannot tolerate what I eat; we are all not the same as each other, but the advertising and news comments would have us believing we are.

It makes us unique as a race of people being different, but still the world puts us in a group. If only we could be the people we are meant to be, each one of us different, each one of us understanding our differences. I remember in the very beginning with my husband Alan, my choosing not to do something he was doing, and he could not understand why; why did I not want to do what he was doing, or eat the same food as him? I tried to point out to him, I was not HIM, but it was difficult for him to understand my answers. Of course now, ten years later as I write this blog, he is VERY understanding of our differences, time has enabled him to see I AM different to him, but for quite some time it would create problems in our relationship! The biggest thing as I see it is for humanity to understand we ARE different to each other, but we can live together in harmony if we do understand that concept. Alan and I are so different, we are born only two days apart, and we do have some beliefs and tastes which are the same, but we also are so different to each other. In the beginning it was hard living with him not understanding why I did not want to be the same as him, but as the years passed and he mellowed, we have become so understanding of each other.

Until we can understand each other, we cannot change the world! We are desperately trying to change things in the world, yet allowing the weeds to grow in our own back yard; once the weeds are cleared within us, then and only then can we see the flowers in the garden! I am so grateful for my belief in metaphysics because it enables me to see how life is an illusion. We are all of us living a life which we have chosen, unlike anyone else. I have learned to detach emotionally, and am able to see life as a game, a game everyone is playing, but I am not a part of. Life for everyone is a learning process, without emotion and intense feeling (detachment) we can look at life without fear, doubt, anger etc., and often understand the motives of people or why they do what they do. We cannot change anything until we can change ourselves, and changing ourselves is not an important thing in our agenda!

The recent events in the Middle East which have impacted the rest of the world, have brought home to me just how much hate there is in the world, it is actually like a virus which we have difficulty finding a cure for. The news broadcasts spread the virus and those of us who can detach, watch as the virus causes more and more problems on the earth plane. We have those who say, “we just need to have love for each other!” what a crock of ****! I am sorry, but as far as I am concerned, this makes it worse, we need to UNDERSTAND each other, to accept our differences, color, religion or faith, preferences, etc., completely unconditionally, if we do so, we can then begin moving ahead to world peace and everyone living in harmony with each other. This may seem a hard task to fulfill, but ONLY when we can see the differences in each other, can we change the world. Is it bad to have love? No it is not, but there are those out there who find love hard to understand, or to experience; they find it hard to understand love, certain astrological signs cannot exhibit love, it does not mean they are devoid of love, they just find it hard to express it or even understand it. They may never do so either, but with the right way of teaching and letting go of fear of each other, we can then begin to understand each other, whether we understand love or not!

Metaphysics, is not spiritual, neither is it a religion, it is a way of life which enables you to become the person you can be, not the robot you have become. It is devoid of fear, doubt, anger etc., it gives us answers as to why we are the way we are, and gives us hope and positive energy for the future. We are all giants in the world, but for 90% of humanity, we see ourselves as not worthy, not good enough, a lesser person; yet we are all Gods if we will allow ourselves to be the person we can be, NOT the person who life has manipulated and molded, someone so far from what we are, we do not recognize ourselves. We need to change our self, before we can change the world and have a better life and existence!