Everyone on the earth plane is different to each other and as such has their own ideas as to how things should be. You tend to think because a certain way of doing things worked for you, they are also suitable for others, but this is not true! Each one of you has chosen to do what you need to do YOUR way, for YOUR learning; what is good for one’s learning, may be the opposite for another.
You all choose before you are born to have things evolve for your vibration, level of consciousness, and age you are. Someone else will have a different vibration/consciousness, age and will not be able to replicate the energy of another. Each earthly experience will be different, you are not robots, but individuals on a path of learning, some with easy learning, some with a harder path according to their own judgment, and nobody is the same.
Humanity expects everyone to be the same, yet you are NOT the same. You are doing things the way you are doing so or have done so also because of past life energy being played out at the time of the learning. This does not apply to every person, but it is 85% of the time. You are all learning in the way you have chosen to do so, and no two ways are the same.
When you let go of trying to make everyone do it your way, you free up a whole lot of energy, which then gives you more energy to manifest with, solve your problems and move ahead. Who are you to dictate what another person should do with their life or their issues and life lessons? Yet so many of you do; try not to give advice and guidance to anyone, let each person make their own decisions and choices, by doing that you enable the soul within the person to grow and return home to spirit more enlightened and higher in consciousness because they made their own decisions.